There was a
baseball player who was "dogging it." He took his own sweet
time, missed easy fly balls, and did not catch much. He had the attention
of Eeyore and ran like Winnie the Pooh.
Finally,
during the game, the coach yanked him off of the field and sent in player
two. Player one did not play again for two full weeks, during which time
the coach had him doing all sorts of extra practicing.
Player two
went out there and did all he could to catch the fly balls, not miss the
grounders, and bring them home.
Player one
had greater skill, but player two followed through. The second player
went after it harder. With all he had.
After two
weeks of being benched, the 1st player was allowed to play
again. This time, after two weeks of being benched and of hard
practicing, he did fantastic. He caught the balls. He brought them
home.
Use Your Talents
God has
given each of us talents. Some folks have one talent. Some have two
or three. And, according to Jesus, a few have a bunch. Regardless
of how many you have, if you don’t use what you have you could get benched.
No one has
ever hit a home run from the dugout. Home runs are hit by people willing
to leave the dugout, walk up to the plate, and swing the bat. Take the
chance and walk to the plate.
In baseball,
successful players get 3 hits out of 10. If you make 4 out of 10 (40%),
you are considered a hero. That means that the most successful baseball
players tend to miss 60% of what is thrown at them.
There are
some people in life that walk up to the plate once or twice, but if they
miss one or two balls, they consider themselves a failure and retreat to the
dugout, too afraid to try again. The dugout seems safer than the playing
field. The problem is, you can't score any runs from the dugout. You
can sit and criticize how other players are playing the game from the
dugout. But you can't score any runs.
I knew a lady who applied for one job. When the company gave the position to another person, it blew the woman out of the water. Feeling great rejection, she refused to apply anywhere else.
Now let's put that in perspective. Dan Miller, motivational business coach and speaker, estimates that for every 30-35 jobs for which you apply, you should expect to receive one or two callbacks. Not job offers but callbacks.
Successful people expect rejection - and keep moving when it comes. And they don't combine their self-worth with rejection from others.
New Dreams
Successful
people also learn to dream new dreams - even when old dreams may have died or not
materialized. In the world of writing, successful writers understand it is the nature of the business to be rejected. They expect
rejection. So, they submit one proposal, query, or article and then
immediately start another one. They don't stop hitting just because they
miss one.
16 literary
agents and 12 publishers rejected John Grisham's first novel, A Time to
Kill. When finally published, the book became a bestseller, and
Grisham's books have sold almost 250 million copies.
Andy Andrews' manuscript The Travelers Gift received 51 rejections from the biggest publishers in the world over a three-year period. When it was finally published, it became a New York Times bestseller featured on Good Morning, America.
Andy learned how to persist through his rejections.
Andy Andrews' manuscript The Travelers Gift received 51 rejections from the biggest publishers in the world over a three-year period. When it was finally published, it became a New York Times bestseller featured on Good Morning, America.
Andy learned how to persist through his rejections.
Use what you
have. If you have one talent, don't focus on the guy who has ten.
And if you have ten, you better get busy using those ten. And try to encourage
the guy who has one.
You don’t
set God’s clock. You are not the master of your clock.
There is no
shame in trying and failing, but there is great shame in not trying at all.
On our
deathbed, may we not say, "I wish I had tried." I don’t want to
say that. I want to
say, “I didn’t stay in the dugout.”
In what area of
your life may God be saying, "Leave the dugout and step up to the
plate?"
I based the above article on a devotion I heard from Alton Gansky at a Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference.
Pictures used by permission from Pixabay
I based the above article on a devotion I heard from Alton Gansky at a Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference.
Pictures used by permission from Pixabay
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