The following is a helpful article by Donald Whitney. Perhaps you can get alone sometime the next week and thoughtfully go through these questions . . .
Once, when the people of God had become careless in their relationship with Him, the Lord rebuked them through the prophet Haggai. “Consider your ways!” (Haggai 1:5) he declared, urging them to reflect on some of the things happening to them, and to evaluate their slipshod spirituality in light of what God had told them.
The beginning of a new year is an ideal time to stop, look up, and get our bearings. To that end, here are some questions to ask prayerfully in the presence of God.
Read the entire article, 10 Questions to Ask at the Start of a New Year or On Your Birthday, here.